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\"airplanes<\/a>So I am on a flight from Chicago to LAX to visit my youngest and I am biding my time tapping away in a relaxed fashion pretending\u00a0I like to fly. Let me make it perfectly clear. I don’t dislike flying, I loathe it. The whole process is against every cell of my\u00a0being. I’m not sure if it is a congenital defect. My father was more of a flying loather than I. \u00a0So\u00a0much so that, well, he didn’t fly. Period.<\/p>\n

I, on the other hand, do not have that option as I live in a different generation and world than he\u00a0did. Trains and Greyhounds and the family car are not as popular a mode of travel as they\u00a0once were and more to the point, the rest of my family flies so my options are fly or stay home\u00a0alone. Unless our destination is within a ten-hour driving range and then, at all costs, I have\u00a0fabulous excuses that I should drive and meet them. I’ll bring all the baby paraphernalia; I’ll\u00a0bootleg the wine across state borders. I have to do my daughterly duty at the old folks home on the way and on and on. Some decent enough excuses but they are just that.<\/p>\n

Mostly excuses.<\/p>\n

I’ve given lots of thought to the basis of my fear of dangling at 34,000 feet in a tube of metal\u00a0that I have absolutely no control over. It’s not really claustrophobia, as I do not adore elevators either, but more the whole gig.<\/p>\n

First you are in an incubator of germs that is cycled and recycled throughout the flight. If you\u00a0think there is a fresh air vent someplace, think again.\u00a0And duly note that NEVER, I mean\u00a0NEVER, flush the toilet with the lid up. That suction sound has a back wind you don’t want to\u00a0know the contents of.<\/p>\n

But germophobe aside, planes are cramped, too hot or too frigid, often feel like roller coasters off the track and then there are the seats. Can we talk about the seats?\u00a0Woe the traveler who gets to sit in a seat after a newborn was changed there 10 times or a 400 pound man who should\u00a0have bought three across has squished into it.<\/p>\n

The real thing about me and flying is simply it encapsulates, literally, my raw fear\u00a0of death. And not just death, but death by fireball accompanied by much rolling and plunging.\u00a0Throw in some screaming, praying and crying (and that’s only the pilots) and that pretty much\u00a0wraps up my thoughts on take off, leveling off and landing.<\/p>\n

The weirdest, or maybe predictable, aspect of this flying phobia is I counteract my fears by\u00a0learning everything I can about the sights, sounds, machinery, seating arrangements and people involved with flying. So much so that I am often mistaken for a flight attendant. Perhaps it’s because, unlike many passengers these days, I don’t wear pajama bottoms and a torn tank top and actually put a brush through\u00a0my hair before boarding. Maybe it is because I travel in black and usually a scarf.\u00a0Could be because I’m up and down the aisle often for nervous\u00a0bathroom vists.<\/p>\n

Once a man actually asked me for coffee as I passed his seat so I told the flight attendant\u00a032C needed a beverage before I slipped into the “aft” bathroom. She laughed and said she, too, had wondered if I flew for the friendly skies.<\/p>\n

On today’s flight though, we have hardly seen the flight attendants’ faces. United’s new trick, to cover the useless safety information they pretend can save you in an emergency, is a fantasy video rather than a uniformed person standing in the aisle draped in a yellow life vest while snapping seat belt buckles. What made it particularly amusing was the whole spiel was shown in peaceful serene settings. Airplane seats were lined up on a beach with girls in bikinis strapping on seatbelts and tucking trays of coconuts under the seat in front of them. My favorite part was someone relaxing in a hot tub hugging a seat cushion as a floatation device.<\/p>\n

The day that I take off with warm sand between my toes and land in a hot tub for an emergency water landing, I’m all in.<\/p>\n

In addition to being the only person on the plane actually watching the safety information, I do other things to increase my comfort level. I use www.seatguru.com<\/a>, a great resource for the\u00a0pros and cons of every single seat on every type of plane for every destination and every airline. It tells which\u00a0ones don’t have windows, where to get the best legroom without added fees. I pretend seat\u00a0numbers make a difference. Choosing right or left side can, of course, save your life. You will never catch me in row thirteen obviously.<\/p>\n

I won’t even start on packing for weight and size limits. The trunk of my car has no such rules. I toss and go and have everything I might possibly forget, want or need when I arrive.<\/p>\n

I just heard the thud of wheels down for our approach into my LA. I love that sound for\u00a0many reasons, the least of which is the only belly landing I can possibly imagine is a botched dive into a\u00a0swimming pool.<\/p>\n

But I’m hell on wheels on a road trip. I have the false sense of security that I am in control and\u00a0my own pilot. No highway hazard statistics can convince me otherwise.<\/p>\n

And as my dad would say, “If God had intended us to fly he would have given us wings.”<\/p>\n

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