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\"thigs\"<\/a><\/span> I have a gifted massage therapist friend who is an inspirational yoga instructor as well. \u00a0We had heard each other’s names for years before we actually met. \u00a0You know, “Do you know so-and-so? Really? \u00a0You should.” Or “I’m sure you know so-and-so. No? Oh, you have to meet her. You will really like her.”<\/p>\n

I’ve often wondered in these situations do we talk alike, think alike, look alike, laugh alike or are the same amount of weird alike? \u00a0When we finally met, it was as though I was catching up with a long, lost friend. And as for when we finally met, as the title implies, it was when the stars, for whatever reason, were aligned for our meeting.<\/p>\n

She had experienced a life-changing event that shifted her perspective on her purpose in this world and her career, and she did an about face that brought her to massage and yoga. \u00a0I, on the other hand, am constantly searching and waiting for that “ah-ha” moment that will explain everything that has happened in my life and give me the peace of “Oh, that’s why. \u00a0Now I get it.”<\/p>\n

But on the day of our first encounter, I was just dog-tired and begging for relief and a massage seemed like the perfect answer. Little did I know that the answer would come in the form of the massage therapist herself. During my massage, our conversation (of course, I talk during a massage) quickly moved from perfunctory getting to know you chitchat to the meaning of life chitchat.<\/p>\n

Although I come from a very traditional religious background and I maintain some of the tenets of that religion, I’m not much of a church person these days. \u00a0I like to tell myself my years of three times a week church (Sunday morning, Sunday night and Wednesday prayer meetings) stocked me up so that I am excused from class from here on out.\u00a0But churchgoer or not,\u00a0I consider myself a spiritual person.<\/p>\n

Searching for perspective outside my traditional upbringing, I have encountered people, such as my masseuse friend, who look beyond the day-to-day to a broader vision of a spiritual connection we all share with each other and our world. \u00a0And I am drawn to these people in their conviction that there is meaning and purpose in our time here on this earth. \u00a0Something I have had doubts about. Especially when I have been thrown up against a life-altering brick wall. During these moments, I have shaken my fists at the heavens saying, “I get it. Stop teaching me. \u00a0I know I have no control.”\u00a0But obviously I don’t believe it. Because the brick walls keep coming and when they do, I keep looking for some feeling of control to rein in the chaos I feel around me. Or at least an answer to “why?”<\/p>\n

As a reasonably well-educated person, I know there is no perfect answer to the “whys,” so I have shifted my searching to some sort of positive spin to put on the things that stop me in my tracks and make me question everything. \u00a0In this search, I’ve acquired a team of spiritual supporters for accepting the good, the bad and the ugly.<\/p>\n

And the team that has rallied is not the team I had expected.<\/p>\n

A world renowned brain surgeon, a friend or two who have died of cancer, a Southern Baptist converted to Buddhism, several shrinks, my dear attorney friend–as broadly, positively, openly spiritual as she is practical. My yoga\/masseuse pal. One of the country’s most prominent Presbyterian ministers. And a \u00a0few essential everyday and forever, “save me, I’m drowning” friends.<\/p>\n

As diverse as they are, they all share a passion for the moment. \u00a0And living in it. \u00a0Because that is all we can be certain of. Not two minutes ago, not the future but right here, this minute, this “now.” \u00a0Despite prognosis, despite fear, despite rejection, grasping for hope, they keep me grounded and lift me up and help me hobble on. \u00a0Or on a skipping along day, they cheer me onward.<\/p>\n

So to come full circle here, “things are always working out for me” was introduced to me in the form of an inside windshield bumper sticker sort of thing that reminds me daily that what we send out into the universe is reflected back at us. \u00a0Thinking being–angry, sad people who expect the worst often receive it. And vice versa–welcoming the good, sends it your way, too.<\/p>\n

\"things<\/a>It was handed to me by said masseuse friend (all this anonymity to protect the innocent is driving me crazy but I’m committed to it) to place on my dashboard as I set off on a ten-hour road trip. \u00a0To West Virginia, of course.<\/p>\n

At first confused, I slid it on the dash and what to my wondering eyes did appear but “Things are always working out for me” reflected in my windshield. And darned it if didn’t work. \u00a0I shot out of Chicago, no traffic, faster than I have ever made it to the Skyway. \u00a0The wreck along the way was quickly cleared and I wasn’t in it.\u00a0Several weeks of having it staring me in the face, literally each time I get in the driver’s seat, I have come to embrace it, believe it and even be so bold as to expect it.<\/p>\n

Curious about this magic mantra, I asked her where it originated. She said it was from Abraham Hicks.\u00a0One Google hit later and I found out, unfortunately, that there is no Abraham Hicks. Abraham-Hicks Publishing is the\u00a0home of inspirational speakers, Esther and Jerry Hicks who authored bestseller, The Law of Attraction<\/em>.\u00a0According to the Hicks, Abraham is a group of spiritual entities that are “interpreted” by or channeled through Esther Hicks. Abraham tells Esther that whenever one feels moments of great love, exhilaration or pure joy, that is the energy of everyone’s “Source,” and that is who Abraham “is.” A little too voodoo for me.<\/p>\n

More than slightly deflated by the “Source” of my newfound inspiration, I texted her and said, “Car stopped on the side of the road. \u00a0It is the black of night on a backwoods highway. \u00a0You thought Abraham was driving. \u00a0But Esther steps out. \u00a0You, my friend, have just crossed over into the Twilight Zone.”<\/p>\n

A few LOL’s later, with her admitting “It’s a little weird,” I regained my composure and decided it didn’t matter if my new mantra had come from a former Amway sales person (Esther) and her former circus performer husband (Jerry). It is working for me. And I am sticking to it.<\/p>\n

And anyway, the rectangle has already faded a spot on my black dashboard so if I take it out, Abraham’s inspiration will still be staring back at me.<\/p>\n

Channeled, of course.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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